I think one of the best things I’ve done for myself this year is disable my need to express myself to abusive people. Disregarding any desire to let people who aren’t worthy of my time, know why they’re not worthy of my time. Some people do not care about you. So where does that leave me? I’m left with a need for therapy, but no longer a need to plead my case. It’s self liberation to not care what an abusive person thinks. To not care what that person deems an acceptable perception of them. These people don’t have the sense to treat you as a person, so they’re now deprived of you of you as a person. Time heals all wounds, I may be hurt… But I’m happy. I have something to look forward to, a whole life filled with surprises. I’m good.
Yes I know this feeling all too well.